jueves, 13 de septiembre de 2007

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Continúa la saga de nuesta heroina favorita Sei no Shonagon, la chica más sexi de hace más de mil años, que inventó un género literario propio: un ensayo fugaz, que salta de un tema a otro, mezcla comentarios con sensaciones, incluye aspectos autobiográficos, observaciones, poemas, con una unidad estética y un estilo propio, pero sin una dirección determinada y alguna que otra noche de farra...

Uy, esa japonesa casi se puede considerar la primera blogera de la historia. Sólo que en vez de con una conexión ADSL, lo hacía con su propia mezcla de tinta. Punto para nota: la creación de Sei se llamó zuihitsu y todavía se siguen escribiendo hoy en día.

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10 ПРАВИЛ СЕМЕЙНОЙ ЖИЗНИ

Хотя данная рассылка адресована, в основном, людям холостым, эта статья им должна быть интересна и может пригодиться в будующей семейной жизни. Ведь не век же нам в холостяках мыкаться? Правда?

Может, это кого-то и удивит, но супружеская жизнь не так проста, как кажется. Мало того, что к браку нужно быть готовым, но также необходимо понимать, что супружеская жизнь - это ежедневная работа двух людей по достижению гармонии в своих отношениях, адаптации друг к другу, видении своей роли в новой семье и построению своей собственной линии поведения в браке. Вот несколько правил, которые еще наши бабушки и дедушки соблюдали, чтобы избежать ссор в семье и продлить свой брачный союз на многие годы. Оттого, может, и жили по 40 лет вместе...

1. Семейная азбука начинается с местоимения "мы".

Каждый из супругов должен приглушить свое "Я" и все воспринимать, делать и строить свою жизнь с позиции "МЫ". Соблюдение этого правила серьезно пополнит семейную жизнь счастьем, взаимопониманием, радостью.

2. Спеши повторить хорошее.

Сделав хорошее дело, спеши еще сделать хорошее для супруга (супруги), для семьи. Это наполнит счастьем не только того, для кого сделано то хорошее, но и самого делающего добро.

3. Остановись во гневе.

Мудрое правило - не спеши излить гнев, подумай, осмысли ситуацию, умей понять и простить супруга (супругу).

4. В любой конфликтной ситуации не вини супруга(у), а ищи причину в себе.

Психологически очень тонкое и глубокое правило. В истинном смысле во взаимоотношениях супругов и конкретных ситуациях почти всегда виноваты оба, и если случился проступок, в котором виноват один из супругов, то почва для проступка была возможно когда-то подготовлена другим супругом.

5. Каждый шаг навстречу равен многим дням радости, каждый шаг в сторону от семьи, от супруга - многим горьким дням.

В молодых же семьях часто бывает наоборот - поссорились супруги, и ни один из них не хочет сделать шаг навстречу, ждет, когда это сделает другой. А иногда еще хуже того: действует по принципу "ты мне сделал плохо, а я тебе еще хуже сделаю", как говорится "зуб за зуб". Все это затем приводит к серьезным разногласиям в семье.

6. Доброе слово - хорошо, а доброе дело - лучше.

Безусловно, везде доброе дело лучше, чем доброе слово. Но в семейных отношениях иногда доброе слово значит не меньше, чем доброе дело. Кстати, не только женщина "любит ушами", мужчине также необходимо слышать одобрение со стороны супруги, похвалу и, конечно, что он самый-самый.

7. Умей не только встать на место другого, но достойно встать на свое в данной ситуации.

Ответственность за свои поступки, принятие своего поражения, своей неправоты - это умение, которое само не приходит, его необходимо терпеливо и настойчиво воспитывать еще с детского возраста.

8. Не верит тот, кто сам обманывает.

Семейные отношения строятся на доверии друг другу. Следует воспитывать в себе стремление сохранить это доверие, оправдать его.

9. Будь другом его (ее) друзей, тогда и твои друзья станут его (ее) друзьями.

10. Никто не стремится любить тещу и свекровь, но готовы любить двух мам.

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